Saturday, November 8, 2014

Healing Others-Symbol for self-forgiveness, self-love and removal of blame

“We habitually erect a barrier called blame that keeps us from communicating genuinely with others, and we fortify it with our concepts of who's right and who's wrong. We do that with the people who are closest to us and we do it with political systems, with all kinds of things that we don't like about our associates or our society.

It is a very common, ancient, well-perfected device for trying to feel better. Blame others....Blaming is a way to protect your heart, trying to protect what is soft and open and tender in yourself. Rather than own that pain, we scramble to find some comfortable ground.”
― Pema Chödrön

I have read a few books by Pema Chodron and she is a very wise Buddhist. I appreciate this fact more when I realize that she writes about some of the challenges that I have in life. Do you ever blame yourself for things? I think everyone does even when they did not do anything wrong. Others perceptions are important to us and our accepting these perceptions bring about sorrow and pain in our lives.

Yet why do they do these things if you did nothing wrong. You are responsible for your own actions, words and the things you do. You are responsible when you are lying about and saying bad things about others. Even telling the truth about the evil others have done to you can create circumstances that give people power over your heart and your inner-self.

How do we prevent this? Forgiving our self is one way to do this because you are not responsible for others opinions. If you know the people and saw how they complained and blamed everyone else even when they did nothing and the people were not responsible for their own actions then you knew they would do it to you. I have blamed myself for this dozens of times yet giving others a chance is a good trait yet judging others harshly is bad.

I have had that problem recently with people. They blame their actions on me when I do not act that way. I judge myself harshly with the things I do by the very fact of such negative people being around me who are hateful and hate themselves. I am not responsible for the fact that every one of these mentally ill people feel others act the same way that they do. I am not responsible for their lies, delusions and manipulations of others. I am not responsible for their hateful actions that others hate no matter how much they try to blame me.

I am not responsible for their words, their actions, any actions done by others, their manipulations of others and their lying about my religion, nature, actions, and all the other things people do to separate others from people. People do these hateful actions are mentally ill and act this way to protect themselves and to say they are normal. They do not want to accept people who do not act like themselves because they do not know how to love themselves, accept themselves and can only compare themselves to being better than the evil actions of others even if they have to make up the evil actions or blame the other people for what they did so they can look good and perfect. They are mentally ill when they put their evil actions upon others to abuse, make others suffer, separate others into groups and they form hate groups.

This is very accurate but are we all hate groups of ourselves? Do we hate ourselves for the times we are imperfect? For the times we did something that had bad repercussions when we did nothing incorrect and it was the actions of others that turned it into a great evil? We are only responsible and to blame for our own actions, our own words, our own deeds and how we treat ourselves.

This symbol is for the people who are responsible and introspective. Who blame themselves for things they did not do or accepted that they are not perfect. No one is perfect and may everyone who uses this symbol learn how to love themselves and realize they are not perfect but accepting what others try to do to them is wrong. Cruelty is never correct or right and neither is hate of any type.


The phrase for this symbol is:

Listen to me (say your name) Under stand me (say your name) You are to love yourself. You are to forgive yourself and ask for forgiveness for being ill, doing and saying the wrong things, accepting the blame of others, and hating yourself. Listen to me love yourself
Listen to me love yourself
Listen to me love yourself
Listen to me Forgive yourself
Listen to me Release yourself
Listen to me renew yourself in true Divine Love


Doodle upon this image or look at the image, close your eyes and doodle then sprinkle salt and Italian seasoning on the paper. Look at it again and see all the built of patterns of thoughts and reactions that have brought you so much pain by insulting, manipulating, harming, and cruelty to others when you only meant to be better. As people who do this always do it for certain reasons. People who blame others always feel inferior and since they do not have good examples of what they can do instead rip down others who do their best. 

Other reasons are feeling sad or grief stricken about things you did that did not work. Picking upon yourself over a loss or suffering when you did your best and nothing will change the past but forgiveness of yourself. Put all of these emotions into the doodle and then burn it in the barbecue or rip it up and throw it out the window. It will help you to forgive yourself and restore your self-love.


Thursday, October 9, 2014

In Memory of Don Hushour

“Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.”
― Rumi

Don was my ex-husband but in many ways he was still my husband. We helped each other, argued with each other and he was my best friend for 32 years. He had a head injury which caused an Organic Brain Disorder and Frontal Lobe Epilepsy which caused him fits. I learned a great deal from him.

Don taught me about music and how to sing. He taught me that no matter how smart someone is our brains do not always work well. We had fun and adventure together and laughed together. He was never able to live with anyone else because it got on his nerves. We loved each other but living with each other could be rough.

He quit having adventures when his medication seemed to quit working and the new medicine was better for him but did not seem to work as well. I had to nag him so much to do things that I did not even like myself. Yet it was the only way to get him to move.

He became ill and self-diagnosed himself with cancer when he had an infection. The infection is contagious and everyone who gets MRSA should go to a doctor or hospital because it is vicious and kills healthy and unhealthy people.

He was my hero for allowing me to leave and move to the Philippines because MRSA is active in our area of the US. I never thought he would become ill and die of  MRSA as I almost died twice and he never became ill.

I am doing my work and keeping busy but that is the reason I have not posted as much in the blog. He died just as he wanted to with me calling up and getting him to a doctor, with my telling him I loved him, and how much I cared. I always told him I loved him every phone call so remember the one thing that people can take from this life is love, and kindness.



Thursday, September 18, 2014

Healing others-Symbol to remove mental programming By Nita Hickok (c) 2014

Key Phrase-
Listen to me. I command my mind, body, soul, subconscious,emotions,beliefs and creativity to block and refuse all mental control, manipulation, influence.No permission, agreements, or actions are allowed that cause illness, death, self-sabotage or actions I am not conscious of that remove my self-control.

You repeat this phrase 3 times while looking at the symbol and drawing on a piece of paper. The drawing does not need to make sense. You then burn the drawing with salt and cinnamon to remove anything that was released by this method.

I am developing a new method where the drawings are simple and combine Rorschach drawings which is subconscious release with automatic drawing. Automatic drawing accesses the higher self and the subconscious.

I decided that this symbol was worthwhile after discovering how much subliminal programming and Neuro Linguistic Programming key words and embedded commands are used in entertainment and promoting sales of products. There are also ways they are used in a form of hypnosis that can be done by music or TV.

No one wants to believe that they can be influenced in this way but think of some commercials and songs that can do this to you. How many people watch religious programs that make it so you do what they want or are influenced by the subjects and the way the words and language are used?

I deal with people with spiritual problems and many of them listened to others and were taken advantage of with healing and joining groups. Recently I have found a way that the divine channel is used and it disconnects and reconnects the higher self which is how God works through your channel into your physical body. The better connection to your higher self brings about the help of divine energies in your life where events flow properly.

I heard the phrase shadow people before and it is almost like the shadows and fears of everyone being manifested at times through the subliminal programming in our lives. So this symbol will help with people who are having problems in life in many ways. Try the symbols and let me know how you feel and if it helps out. I have had compliments on some of the other symbols but it should help to make your life glow and shine in beauty.

Thursday, August 28, 2014

Healing Others- My New Method to help others

“As my sufferings mounted I soon realized that there were two ways in which I could respond to my situation -- either to react with bitterness or seek to transform the suffering into a creative force. I decided to follow the latter course.”
― Martin Luther King Jr


 My work is to heal others and to help them find the ways they need to help themselves. I have been trying different methods for years and found a simple way for people to reprogram their subconscious. I drew the symbols in ways to promote the removal of the fears and subconscious problems that cause people so much grief.

It is simple and easy. Yet the symbols look strange because they are to bring out the things that we need to heal and to find our true selves. I call this symbol healing suffering to manifest your true self.
I see this as a symbol that could be compared to a Rorschach test, thought form, and conscious image of a shattered person who wants to find their true self. It is a way to look at these parts of ourselves that can not be normally accessed and free ourselves.

Method- Look at the image and focus on it. It can be printed out or just stared at and then think of the things that you want freed from yourself and your subconscious. The things you need to be your true self and to heal.

Take a blank piece of paper and just draw with out thinking. It used to be called doodling when I was a child. Draw until you feel it is done and then look at what you have drawn. Stare at everything then sprinkle it with salt and say this part of me is healed. I am done with these problems. You then burn it and go to an open window. Lift up the ashes and blow them out the window where they blow out of the house or do it outside your door where they blow away from your house.

Clear up any energies of pain and sorrow by doing confession and repentance until you feel cleared of negativity. Do this as many times as needed to help yourself.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Negative Entities, Demons or Aliens Part 2


I have searched for years for the meanings of many of the strange things I have seen and experienced. I could be called an eternal student for that reason. I next want to post a link to an article about dimensions which explains mathematically how dimensions work for paranormal and psychic abilities.
  http://vernonneppe.com/world_of_9_dimensions.aspx

Now for a reference about time. Ernest Mach says "It is utterly beyond our power to measure the changes of things by time.Quit the contrary, time is an abstraction at which we arrive by means of the changes of things." I have thought for years of periods in human history mentioned in many books such as the flood, and the Dark Ages. Strange things occurred during those times where it seemed like human kind went crazy. It was like the descriptions of all of the religions that I quoted and demons happen every where.

So what ever this is can appear and stay in a window and it is not a person as it was daylight outside when the photo was taken. It is shaped like a human being and you will also see distortions to the side like something else is there. The one being banished was the more solid one then and being forced out of our dimension. The ones not as solid were somehow in-between accessing our dimension. They would have to know where to appear by energies and be able to access those energies through time also.

They are invisible and seem to have God like powers in an evil way. In the Jewish Bible they were of God but of the left hand side of God. An adversary to mankind to test what we are and how we have advanced to the love of God. Yet they did not look almost human.No one was outside and how did the window go dark colored and red during daytime?

In the other religious books it was about punishment, being cast out, cast down, and the punishment of God. It was the very thing the Satan was supposed to cause but it seems like whatever the Satan is went crazy at times during humanities existence.Yet the Jewish description of the left hand side of God does not fit the description of evil angels. These beings do not look like that so what are they and could they be responsible for the waves of evil affecting mankind? May be the demons everyone laughs at and claim that they do not exist are really from different dimensions and beings that can travel through space and time?

I know that with my experiences and the strange things I have seen there is always someone ready to call me a nutcase or try to say that only one religion can cast out evil. It is untrue as every religion has a way to cast out evil or demons. Demons and evil are not limited to one religion or one spiritual method to remove them. They afflict all of humankind and every part of humankind has tried to find a way to deal with them in the past and present.

I feel that they are able to access space and time and during the times when humankind comes the closest to Gods divine love they sabotage humankind. They cause a perversion of people and religion like the Buddhists describe. They cause the problems described in many religious books. So the question is by ignoring this invisible invasion that keeps happening to us are we dooming humankind to failure in our evolution to meet our Divine Father.Our is everything of God and we are supposed to learn not to do these things to ourselves?

I am dealing with stalkers in my life right now from a perverted sect of Christianity that caused me to think of these things. They act like the descriptions of what demons do including to the inhuman harassment and hacking they do rewriting my words and causing me issues. Yet if they were successful at dealing with demons why do they act like them. The focus is how people change even if they are religious or not by being perverted by all the issues mentioned by Buddhists for Mara possession to cause suffering. So every religion has a part of the whole truth.

Our religions and prayers are a defense that the ancients tried to use to figure out how to call the good into our world and prevent the bad from affecting humankind. Yet look at the Holocaust, the Dark Ages and other times when waves of evil influenced our world.The Crusades is an example of religions going crazy through the influence of they are of God and no one else is of God.

I look at the trends of today and see another time of choice. The Satan as he is called is like a jealous person and adversary trying to make us look our worse. He is like many people of today that the only time he can believe he will gain the love of God is by making everyone and everything look worse than he does. We all reflect the mind of God and we all choose which side of God we represent the left hand side or the right hand side. We all have to do the will of God and it is our blessing to do this for ourselves and humankind. So is God a being so huge and powerful that we can not even describe him in religious books. Think about our vocabulary and realize that the ancients did not even have words for what they were experiencing while we have the words of our technology. Yes he is that wonderful and not able to be understood by us and something so wonderful has everything trying to be loved by it no matter what name it is called in our religious belief's and our lives.

We are blessed by many examples of good things humanity has done and examples of many evil religious groups, actions of humankind, and other things which go against the goodness people want in their lives. Our challenge from our adversary is to fight the injustices and evil of our lives to bring about a group blessing of humankind from God. He truly loves humankind but by our choices and what we allow to exist around us we can cut God off by tossing him out of our lives. I try to make it so he stays in my life and I know I have extra protection. Just as I do my work no matter how nutty I can look to others. The result is the healing and blessing of knowing that I am a servant of God and that every thing I do including live my life is through his blessings and love.

So what is God and why is our world Dual and that is a question many people who are brilliant have asked for the ages of humankind's existence. I am just another searcher or conspiracy theorist as one person mentioned yet look at the times when humankind has done abuse and cruelty that is not even human. I wonder about how the very people who are supposed to do the most good can advocate such cruelty and oppression through hatred of others. Could waves of aliens really be our demons and angels? Could our creator be so advanced that the races are competing for his divine love. We know that is true and he is the most wonderful thing in our lives as God is Everything. We are all seekers one way or another in our lives so I have just asked another question. Think about it and we all may find the answer.
ical reality. Ernst Mach says: "It is utterly beyond our power to measure the changes of things by time. Quite the contrary, time is an abstraction at which we arrive by means of the changes of things".

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ical reality. Ernst Mach says: "It is utterly beyond our power to measure the changes of things by time. Quite the contrary, time is an abstraction at which we arrive by means of the changes of things".

Read more: http://www.physicsforums.com
ical reality. Ernst Mach says: "It is utterly beyond our power to measure the changes of things by time. Quite the contrary, time is an abstraction at which we arrive by means of the changes of things".

Read more: http://www.physicsforums.com

Ernst Mach says: "It is utterly beyond our power to measure the changes of things by time. Quite the contrary, time is an abstraction at which we arrive by means of the changes of things". (1) It seems that Einstein was aware that Newton’s time is only a conce

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ical reality. Ernst Mach says: "It is utterly beyond our power to measure the changes of things by time. Quite the contrary, time is an abstraction at which we arrive by means of the changes of things".

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Ernst Mach says: "It is utterly beyond our power to measure the changes of things by time. Quite the contrary, time is an abstraction at which we arrive by means of the changes of things".

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My blog will be about my work helping others with spiritual problems. I will talk about methods, try to brainstorm on different methods, and many of the problems I encounter and the people encounter with being able to be healed.