“Your primal brain is programmed for three responses to fear: freeze, flight or fight. You can choose to freeze and be consumed as your fears eat you alive. Or you can run away from your fears by engaging in various distractions which bring only a false and temporary feeling of safety until you once again have to run and hide from the same internal predator. It is only when you decide to stand and fight your fears, in the battle for the life that you want and deserve, that you can defeat the beast and emerge victorious!”
I have found this to be very true. I deal with clients who are in all stages of fear. They are traumatized and do not know what to do. Some of them freeze and do not want to believe what is happening to them. They have always believed in science. Seeing ghosts or worse can cause them to have mental problems because all of their belief's and expectations about life have been proven wrong.
The people who take flight will panic and bring worse things into their lives. If it happened once where they saw a demon or had a demon infestation then it may happen again. They have to watch all of the time and be ready to escape. They will hook onto a person and believe they are safe. The only safety is starting a form of divine worship to be able to stop the problems. Anything of an infernal or other worldly nature is something which has to be dealt with by the opposite forces. The main thing I do is find the solutions for people to let divine energies into their lives. Divine love will dissolve and nullify evil yet the people who have strange experiences will always lose their faith in the divine because it is not supposed to happen to them. No one knows what life has in store for them.
Our choices make it so we experience certain things including spiritual problems until we return to where we are meant to be in life. So no one can say that their life is set and that certain things are supposed to happen. We hope to find someone to love and care about us. We hope to be able to live a good life and support ourselves. Yet life is like a sine wave. It goes in cycles of up and down and we have to be ready for the good and the bad in life. No one's life is perfect for their entire life. The ones who have a perfect life until something happens are the ones who do not know what to do when bad things happen to them. So struggle and adversity will teach us how to survive and endure.
No matter what happens to us we are strengthened and good will help sooner or later. The main question should be how to bring good and the divine into our lives quickly when we are having a rough time. The answer is to fight and to endure. I have gone through horrendous suffering at times in my life. The work I do makes it so that I have energies and entities fighting back because they do not want to be removed. Many people trying to improve their lives have the same resistance to good things happening. You do not give up hope but you keep fighting.
Fighting has to be done in the proper way. You have to plan out what you think will make your life better and keep trying until you see improvements. You have to be consistent, and not let others drag you back down into the mental, physical, emotional or financial spot you found in your life that caused the suffering. You have to take responsibility and release all your expectations. You have to do what works to bring the results that you want to have in your life. You have to endure the problems and people discouraging you. People can help you and show you what to do. Yet you have to develop the mindset of the evil will not come into your life again. You have to stop it in its tracks and show you do not want it in your life.
I always think of the moment in Lord of the Rings where Gandalf is on the bridge facing the Balrog. He hits his staff on the bridge and says "You will not pass." it is what each of us has to do in our lives to stop the bad things happening to us. Releasing, forgiving, and learning is the solution to this. You then fight, plan, endure and be consistent until you get the results that you want in your life. Some times it does not seem to go right but when you are done it is always in the place that will work for you.
No one who has ever been a success has had an easy time of it. They all learn how to fight properly to get the best results. The wrong way to fight is by abusing others and putting yourself first. You need a certain amount of aggressiveness but you have to be the real you. Fighting the negativity in your life will bring great rewards and make you a better person. You will have compassion for others and learn to be kind if you do not hold onto your suffering like a badge of honor. Abusing others and acting badly will bring more of those energies into your life where you find that you destroyed the good things by putting out negativity.
All the struggles of life do one thing. They change you as a person and make you a better person if you overcome the fear and worries you have about life. No one is here to give you sympathy and tell you how horrible it is that happened to you. It is all about your figuring out what is wrong, and finding someone to help you. It is then learning to empower yourself so the bad things do not happen again. You know how to deal with any problems and endure.